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Tuesday, January 17, 2017

I loved this interpretation of Prayer


What is a prayer?

Prayer doesn't just happen when we kneel or put our hands together and focus and expect things from God.    
Thinking positive and wishing good for others is a prayer.
When you hug a friend. That's a prayer.

When you cook something to nourish family and friends. That's a prayer.  
When we send off our near and dear ones and say, 
'Drive safely' or 'be safe'. That's a prayer.
When you are helping someone in need by giving your time and energy. You are praying.
When you forgive someone by your heart. That is prayer. Prayer is a vibration. A feeling. A thought.
Prayer is the voice of love, friendship, genuine relationships. Prayer is an expression of your silent being.
Keep praying always... Stay Blessed

You are Not your Age



The Blind Act

A man married a beautiful girl. He loved her very much. One day she developed skin disease. Slowly she started to lose her beauty.   
 So happened that day her husband left her on a tour. While returning he met with an accident and Lost his sight. However their married life continued as usual. But as days passed she lost her beauty step by step. Blind husband did not know this and there  was no any difference in their married life. He continued to love her and she also loved him. 

One day she died. Her death brought him great sarrow.
He finished all her last rights and wanted to leave that town.
A man from behind called and said, now how will you be able to walk all alone? All these days your wife used to help you.
He replied, I am not blind. I was acting,  because if she came to know that I knew that she had skin disease, it would have pained her more than her disease. So only I acted as blind. she was very good wife. I only wanted to keep her happy.

Moral: Some time it is good for us to act blind or ignore someone's short comings, just to keep them happy

Sunday, January 8, 2017

What is spiritual maturity?




1. Spiritual Maturity is when you stop trying to change others, ...instead focus on changing yourself.

2. Spiritual Maturity is when you accept people as they are.  

3. Spiritual Maturity is when you understand everyone is right in their own perspective.

4. Spiritual Maturity is when you learn to "let go".

5. Spiritual Maturity is when you are able to drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.

6. Spiritual Maturity is when you understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.

7. Spiritual Maturity is when you stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.

8. Spiritual Maturity is when you don't seek approval from others.

9. Spiritual Maturity is when you stop comparing with others.

10. Spiritual Maturity is when you are at peace with yourself.

11. Spiritual Maturity is when you are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants & last but most meaningful !

12. You gain Spiritual Maturity when you stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!

So who is packing your parachute


Air Commodore Vishal was a Jet Pilot. In a combat mission his fighter plane was destroyed by a missile. He however ejected himself and parachuted safely. He won acclaims and appreciations from many.

After five years one day he was sitting with his wife in a restaurant. A man from another table came to him and said "You're Captain Vishal ! You flew jet fighters. You were shot down!"

"How in the world did you know that?" asked Vishal.

"I packed your parachute," the man smiled and replied.
Vishal gasped in surprise and gratitude and thought if parachute hadn't worked, I wouldn’t be here today.

 Vishal couldn't sleep that night, thinking about that man. He wondered how many times I might have seen him and not even said 'Good morning, how are you?' or anything because, he was a fighter pilot and that person was just a safety worker"

So friends, who is packing your parachute?
Everyone has someone who provides what they need to make it through the day. 

We need many kinds of parachutes when our plane is shot down – we need the physical parachute, the mental parachute, the emotional parachute, the spiritual parachute & the Financial Parachute.We call on all these supports before reaching safety.Sometimes in the daily challenges that life gives us, we miss what is really important.

We may fail to say hello, please, or thank you, congratulate someone on something wonderful that has happened to them, give a compliment, or just do something nice for no reason.

As you go through this week, this month, this year, recognize the people who pack your parachute. 

😊 I just want to THANK 🙏 Everyone who Packed  my parachute this year one way or the other - through your words, deeds, prayers.  Cheers!!

If You Can


If you can keep your head when all about you
 Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
  But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
  Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
  And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
  If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
  And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
  Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
  And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
  And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
  And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
  To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
  Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
  Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
  If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
  With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
  And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son.

It’s how you do the job


Six years ago in Singapore I gave a taxi driver a business card to take me to a particular address.
At the last point he circled round the building. His meter read 11$, but he took only 10.

I said Henry, your meter reads 11$ how come you are taking only 10.

He said Sir, I am a taxi driver, I am supposed to be bringing you straight to the destination. Since I did not know the last spot, I had to circle around the building. Had I brought you straight here, the meter would have read 10$.

Why should you be paying for my ignorance ?

He said Sir, legally, I can claim 11$ but Honestly and ethically I am entitled to only 10.

He further added that Singapore is a tourist destination and many people come here for three or four days. After clearing the immigration and customs, the first experience is always with the taxi driver and if that is not good, the balance three to four days are not pleasant either.

He said Sir I am not a taxi driver, I am the Ambassador of Singapore without a diplomatic passport.

In my opinion he probably did not go to school beyond the 8th grade, but to me he was a professional. To me his behavior reflected pride in performance and character.

That day I learnt that one needs more than professional qualification to be a professional.

In one line be a "Professional with a human touch and Values " that makes all the more difference.

Knowledge, skill, money, education, all comes later. First comes Human Values, Honesty and Integrity.

Professionalism:
It’s NOT the job you DO, It’s HOW you DO the job.

Golden Rules for Aging Gracefully