This is a beautiful and touching story of
love and perseverance.
At the prodding of my friends I am writing
this story.
My name is Mildred
Honor and I am a former elementary school music teacher
I have always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons -
something I have done for over 30 years.
During those years I found that children have many levels of musical
ability, and
even though I have never had the pleasure of having
a prodigy,
I have taught some very talented students.
However, I have also had my share of what I call 'musically challenged'
pupils -
one such pupil being Robby..
Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a
single mom) dropped him
off for
his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys) begin
at an earlier age,
which I explained to Robby.
But Robby said that it
had always been his mother's dream to hear him play the piano,
so I took
him as a student.
Well, Robby began his piano lessons and from the beginning I thought it was
a hopeless
endeavor. As much as Robby tried, he lacked
the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel.
But he dutifully reviewed his scales
and some elementary piano pieces that I require all my students to learn.
Over the months he tried and tried while I listened and cringed
and tried to encourage him.
At the end of each weekly lesson he would always say 'My mom's going to
hear me play
someday'. But to me, it
seemed hopeless, he just did not have any inborn ability.
I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited
in her
aged car to pick him up. She always waved and
smiled, but never dropped in.
Then one day Robby stopped coming for his lessons. I thought about calling
him,
but assumed that because of his lack of ability
he had decided to pursue something else.
I was also glad that he had stopped coming
- he was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed a flyer recital to the students' homes.
To my
surprise, Robby (who had received a flyer) asked me if he could be in the
recital.
I told him that the recital was for current
pupils and that because he had
dropped out,
he really did not qualify.
He told me that his mother had been sick and
unable to take him to his piano lessons,
but that he had been practicing. 'Please Miss Honor, I've just got to play'
he insisted.
I don't know what led me to allow him to play
in the recital - perhaps it was his
insistence or maybe something inside of me saying
that it would be all right.
The night of the recital came and the high school gymnasium was packed with
parents,
relatives and friends. I put Robby last in the
program, just before I was to come
up and thank all the students and play a finishing
piece.
I thought that any damage he might do would
come at the end of the program
and I could always salvage his poor performance
through my 'curtain closer'.
Well, the recital went off without a hitch, the students had been practicing
and it showed.
Then Robby came up on the stage. His clothes were
wrinkled and his hair looked
as though he had run an egg beater through
it. 'Why wasn't he dressed up
like the other students?'
I thought.
'Why didn't his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special
night?'
Robby pulled out the piano bench, and I was surprised when
he announced that he had chosen to play Mozart's Concerto No. 21 in C
Major.
I was not prepared for what I heard next.
His fingers were
light on the keys, they even danced nimbly on the ivories.
He went from pianissimo to fortissimo, from
allegro to virtuoso;
his suspended chords
that Mozart demands were magnificent!
Never had I heard Mozart played so well by anyone his
age.
After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo, and everyone was
on their feet in wild applause!
Overcome and in tears, I ran up onstage and
put my arms around Robby in joy.
'I have never heard you play like
that Robby, how did you do it?
'Through the microphone Robby explained:
'Well, Miss Honor .... remember I told you
that my mom was sick?
Well, she actually had cancer and passed away this morning.
And well
...... she was born deaf, so tonight was the first time she had ever
heard me play,
and I wanted to make it special.'
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening.
As the people from Social
Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care,
I noticed that even their eyes were red and
puffy.
I thought to myself then
how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.
No, I have never had a prodigy, but that night I
became a prodigy ....... of Robby.
He was the teacher and I was the pupil, for
he had taught me the meaning of
perseverance and love, of respect and
believing in yourself,
and may be even taking a chance on someone and
you didn't know why.
Robby was killed years later in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murray
Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April, 1995.
So many seemingly trivial interactions between
two people present us with a choice
Do we act with compassion or do we pass up that opportunity and leave the
world a bit colder in the process?
May God Bless you today, tomorrow and always. If God didn't have a
purpose for us, we
wouldn't be here!
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